Saying
Goodbye to Hugh Hefner
I didn’t know Hugh Hefner had died until I read this
post on Facebook from the daughter of a friend: “R.I.P. hugh hefner!!!!!
A legend, confident and amazing!!!!! In memory of hefner C’mon girls
lets share those bunnies!!!!”
Over the years I have ignored her profanity, forgiven
her rants at the President of the United States, and extended
unprecedented grace when she talks smack against the Seahawks, but this
latest post got her forever blocked. Playboy founder, Hugh Hefner is
unlikely to “rest in peace” and he certainly does not deserve any moral
person’s laud and admiration.
Hefner spent his lifetime making pornography socially
respectable and extremely lucrative. His philosophy of sexual freedom
was constructed to supposedly undo the “Puritan sexual repression” he
saw in American life. His second wife was
thirty-six years his junior. His third wife was sixty years his junior.
Whenever a wife got old (over the age of thirty), he divorced her and
married a younger one.
Hefner deliberately marketed the idea that the
success of a man’s life could be measured by the abundance of his
possessions and the number of women with whom he had had sex. And he
promoted the idea that a woman’s value consisted in her attractiveness
to men and her sexual availability. Hefner’s “bunny” logo captured the
essence of his philosophy that both men and women were essentially
rabbits whose sexual appetites should not be hindered by either culture
or religion.
He did not believe in the supernatural, but he
believed in himself. “I’m a pretty moral guy. Now, it’s morality as I
perceive it. Morality is what is perceived as good for people. I try to
do what’s right, to do what I believe to be truly humanistic and
rational and loving.”
Hefner’s son called him a
“cultural pioneer.” He is praised by celebrities who call him “a
revolutionary,” “an American icon,” and “a truly great man.”
But we aren’t rabbits.
Hugh Hefner was indeed “a revolutionary,” but in all
the wrong ways. The pornographic plague he worked so hard to create has
damaged millions of lives and families. Pornography intensifies
objectification, degradation, and brutality toward women, and deforms
the sexual development of young people.
(Watch serial murderer Ted Bundy’s final interview with “Focus on the
Family.”) Pornography is linked to sex trafficking and the victimization
of children.
If you want to know how sex offenders are developed,
look no farther than Hugh Hefner and Playboy Magazine.
Western society has rejected the concept of absolute
truth and objective morality. Now truth is personal and subjective.
What's true for you isn't necessarily true for me. No one has the right
to "force" their beliefs on anyone else. Our mantra is tolerance.
Everyone should be free to do whatever they want, so long as they don't
mean to hurt anyone.
But the "Playboy Creed” is inherently contradictory.
Everything you do affects someone else. Whatever hurts you does hurt
other people. Hugh Hefner has permanently destroyed millions of innocent
lives. No one sins alone.
In the short-run Hefner’s philosophy may appear to
have won. His Playboy mansion is now potentially the house next door to
yours; maybe it’s even your house. The long-run, though, is quite
different. Hefner said that “an afterlife would be a really good deal.”
I doubt he feels that way about it today.
Jesus, the Good Shepherd continues to search for his
lost sheep-- and sometimes for lost rabbits. The sign of a successful
life is not unrestrained hedonism, but personal sanctification. We are
not called to chase bunnies. We are called to the foot of a cross.
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