To a
Hurting World
Husband and I were in Washington D.C. Memorial Day
weekend for our denomination’s chaplain conference and training. Most
people don’t know the distinction between a pastor and a chaplain.
A pastor is a Christian minister or priest who
usually leads a congregation. They are knowledgeable of scripture and
are often called to give spiritual advice and administer baptism,
communion, marriage, etc. They are also called to be evangelists who
proclaim Jesus as Lord and encourage non-believers to believe likewise.
Chaplains are different. They are called to minister
to people who need spiritual support whether they have shared beliefs or
not. In Washington D.C. we were training with Christian chaplains who
work for hospitals/hospice, the military, police/fire, disaster relief,
prisons/jails, and a variety of industries.
Without pre-coordination our training held to one
theme—the world is filled with hurting people. How can each one of us
overcome the barriers of Christianity’s exclusive history and reach
people with the inclusivity of God’s love?
For instance, we
were challenged to extend God’s grace in our Muslim communities. Too
much of our response to people from the Middle East has been fear-based.
Yet, 1 John 4:18 states, “There is no fear in love; but perfect love
casts out fear… he who fears has not been made perfect in love.” Can we
represent Christ while condemning people who look and believe different
than us?
Our chaplains
were extremely quiet when a speaker tackled another difficult topic--
the LGTBQ community. We went from quiet to absolute silence when our
speaker (a chaplain’s wife and mother) talked about how the church has
failed these individuals. What gives us the right to pass judgments that
proclaim a lesbian, or a trans-sexual, or a gay man has sinned beyond
God’s saving grace?
For just a moment
I raised my head and looked around the room. Easily 30% of us (me
included) were more than 30 lbs overweight. What would be the result if
our churches preached on gluttony, and lying, and gossip with the same
veracity we speak out against same-gender sexual sin? Is it possible
that the Christian church doesn’t want salvation for people who are
hurting if their sins are different than ours?
The last day of
chaplain training was the first day of our denomination’s general
convention. The hotel was full. The restaurants had waiting lines. The
restrooms were fully occupied. And the eight elevators were crammed to
maximum occupancy. We stepped on after two women in blue uniforms. Next
came a young couple with several children and bulging backpacks. Just as
the air was turning hot and moist, two very large men squeezed in
despite the elevator alarm sounding.
Behind me I heard
one of the women mutter, “Why is it the fat ones always think there’s
enough room for them?” I turned toward her and realized that she and her
friend were stewardesses, although their uniforms had no airline pins or
patches.
“Who do you fly
for?” I asked, hoping to re-route her mouth.
She took a long
time to answer. “United,” she whispered without making eye contact.
Since United
Airlines forcefully removed a passenger and the video went viral, how
many times had these hardworking stewardesses been ridiculed and booed?
I recently read an article that reported United’s staff had even been
spit upon and tripped while walking through airports.
Our world is
filled with hurting people. We may not be called to present the gospel
to every one of them, but we always have time to love them.
“You can still be
proud. The skies really are friendly,” is all I said.
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