All Our
Griefs to Bear
The story of Joseph Scriven is one that frequently
comes to my mind around the middle of February. His was a life
consecrated to God, but tragically lived with unrequited love. I cannot
begin to imagine his pain, and yet his trust that Jesus would carry his
sin and grief became one of our most-loved Christian hymns.
Joseph was born in Dublin, Ireland in the 1800’s and
at the age of 25 Joseph fell in love, but their wedding was not to be.
The night before the ceremony he watched as the body of his fiancée was
pulled from a local lake.
Shattered by this tragic loss, he decided to
immigrate to Canada. Joseph packed up his belongings and sailed for The
Americas, leaving his mother behind.
Ten years later in 1855, he received a telegram that
his beloved mother was facing a personal crisis. An amateur poet, he
could think of no better way to comfort her from such a long distance
except to write to her the words on his still-mending heart.
What a friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry,
Everything to God in prayer.
Mrs. Scriven was so moved by her son’s words that she
gave them to a friend who had them anonymously published in their
entirety. A man by the name of Charles Converse set them to music and it
quickly became a popular Irish hymn although no one knew who had written
it.
Then the unlikely occurred. Joseph Scriven fell in
love a second time. Tragedy struck again. His beloved Eliza Catherine
Roche contracted tuberculosis and died in 1860 before their wedding
could take place. He was devastated.
I’ve never lost someone with whom I was in love.
Adoring, devoted affection is so very fragile. It seems to me that
death—which is preventable by our sovereign God—would take me to the
very edge of my faith. What good could possibly come from a lovely bride
who drowned before her ceremony? What eternal purpose is there in
life-stealing disease just when love had appeared again, and hope
restored?
In his despair, Joseph poured himself into ministry.
He did charity work for the Plymouth Brethren and preached among the
Baptists. His life was simple and obscure. Joseph was often seen cutting
firewood for the widows in Port Hope, Canada. He gave away his clothing
and money to those in need.
Ira Sankey later wrote:
“Until a short time before his death it was not known
that he had a poetic gift. A neighbor, sitting up with him in his
illness, happened upon a manuscript copy of
What a Friend We Have in Jesus.
Reading it with great delight and questioning Mr. Scriven about it, he
said that he had composed it for his mother, to comfort her in a time of
special sorrow, not intending that anyone else should see it. Sometime
later, when another Port Hope neighbor asked him if it was true he
composed the hymn, his reply was, ‘The Lord and I did it between us.’”
On October 10, 1896, Joseph Scriven became critically
ill. In his delirium, he rose from his bed and staggered outdoors where
he fell into a small creek and drowned at the age of 66.
But in a moment of unshakeable faith that God will
restore all things that are good, Joseph had arranged that his grave was
specially positioned. His feet were opposite those of his lost love,
Eliza Catherine Roche because at the resurrection he wanted them to
arise facing one another again.
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